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Being easygoing is overrated. And it's costing you.

Published 9 days ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

Have you ever stood up for yourself and then immediately felt like a terrible person?

You asked for what you needed—clearly, respectfully—and still felt like maybe you should’ve just let it go. Been a little easier to deal with. A little more "chill."

This week on How to Love Yourself No Matter What, I’m calling out the harmful messaging that tells women being “easygoing” makes us better people.

Because spoiler alert: It doesn’t.

In this episode, we’ll talk about:

👉 Why guilt shows up after you speak your truth

👉 The hidden costs of being “easygoing”

👉 How to build emotional resilience so you can stop abandoning yourself to make others comfortable

It’s time to stop aiming to be liked—and start aiming to be whole.

🎧 Listen to Ep #262: Why Being Easygoing Doesn’t Make You a Better Person here:

And if this resonates, come find me on Instagram @theamandahess and tell me about a time you felt guilty for taking up space. Let’s work through it—together.

With love and truth,

Amanda

ps: Time is ticking on getting into my membership for free for an entire week - if you want to get in for free, be sure to go sign up now: ​
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Amanda Hess Coaching

Life Coach for neurodivergent women who want to start controlling their thoughts and get rid of anxiety

I specialize in helping neurodivergent women control their thoughts & anxiety

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Hey Reader, Every now and then, I manage to send an email without a link 😩 Here is the link to Ep 262: Why Being Easygoing Doesn't Make You A Better PersonThanks for your grace 💕Amanda On a Mountain, Kamloops, BC V2C6S9Unsubscribe · Preferences

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